There's no doubt you want to look your best when wearing sexy lingerie. It's ideal that us ordinary women won't look like the model in the advertisement or at the store. In the real world every woman has her own unique body and an idea of her assets and areas she'd like to enhance or even hide. Choosing lingerie that completely flatters your specific body type is essential. Luckily there's a little something out there in the lingerie world to accommodate various body shapes for women.

Women with petite bodies are able to pull off ultra sheer skin bearing lingerie but may have some difficulty maximizing their curves in sleek teddies.To increase the look of your waist and curves try teddies and chemises in bright bold colors with lace and mesh detail. The skin tight fabric and frilly detail will cling to your body accentuating the curves and shapely body you do have.

If you have broad shoulders and want to minimize their appearance try baby doll sets or loose teddies. The width of the flowy bottom will correspond with your torso and create a more balanced lingerie look that is very sexy. This is the same for women with athletic bodies. Two piece garter sets will also draw the attention away from your upper body and draw the focal point to an asset you'd like to show off... like your thighs or bottom perhaps.

If you already have a nice full bust you don't have to worry about a heavy push up bra or showing off the girls. Measure and pay close attention to your cup and band size so that you don't overflow in bras and other lingerie tops. Try a balconette bra with matching thong or panties. Avoid halter style tops and add a garter skirt for flair.

Women with a smaller bust often try to enhance their chest with particular styles of lingerie tops. To achieve the look of a fuller bust try a corset or bustier to give you that boost, create cleavage and compliment hour glass body shapes.

Sometimes we like to bear all, while other times we like to conceal our trouble spots-like the tummy for instance. If you want to hide your tummy or at least draw attention away from it while still looking flawless in lingerie lace chemises and sexy teddies are great options. Color blocking is very strategic color placement strategy that works very well on lingerie because it turns the focus to the part of your body you want noticed (like your bust) and shy away from the part you want to conceal (your tummy). Try several lingerie pieces that include either lace detail or color-blocking.

If you're plus size or have a curvy body you'll definitely want to show it off when it comes to wearing lingerie. In order to show off those curves more fabric is less knowing that you don't want to completely skimp down or else there will be nothing to show off. A corset will really hug your body and highlight your assets. Bustiers with two piece garter sets are also great options to complete the whole look.

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Why do most men choose to buy flowers, chocolates and candy? It is simple. They either forgot the occasion and needed a quick gift, or possibly, they are just too shy to go out and buy gifts of a more intimate nature. Many men are very uncomfortable going into a store that sells sexy lingerie, let alone a place that might sell sex toys.

For men who are too shy or embarrassed to go into these kinds of stores, the internet is the perfect solution. The internet provides the opportunity for a person who is uncomfortable in an adult store to go online and select adult toy products and other related items without feeling nervous and in complete anonymity.

Furthermore, if you are worried about the shipping and receiving of an embarrassing parcel at your door, rest at ease. Practically, all online adult shops understand and respect your desire for privacy. In fact, their business depends on their ability to be discreet. Packages will be plainly wrapped, and the return address will not give any clues as to what the parcel contains.

Additionally, companies that do take your credit card are very careful to ensure nothing appears on the statement that would indicate the nature of your purchase. When shopping for lingerie, obviously, the best way to buy it, or any other kind of clothing online, is to have the other person's measurements. However, if you are unable to get these, you may want to avoid items that require a very precise fit. Instead, consider long sexy lingerie along the lines of a nightgown or robe style rather than a bikini type of outfit, which does need a very precise fit.

Alternatively, skip the lingerie and opt for something that might add a little spice or fun to you and your partner's intimate activities such as a sex toy or similar product. Finally, if you are on the fence and not sure, if a mature gift is suitable, take a little time and visit one of the online adult stores. You will be pleasantly surprised to see that the majority of them carry an extremely wide range of products.

The industry has come a long way and many of the items that you will find may delightfully surprise you. They have hundreds of items geared towards couples and offer countless ideas about how to have romantic and intimate evening, in addition to, items that cater to those of a more exotic nature.

This year skip the candy, flowers and chocolate, which although nice, are very impersonal. Take the extra step and get something that is truly just for her. Something that is unexpected, intimate and special!

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No matter who is searching for that specific adult toy,everyone is searching strap ons for pure pleasure and bringing their fantasies to life.Me, they aren't just my way of having fun in a bedroom, but if you ask my wife, she would buy and use any big strapon available on the market. Sadly enough - on me!

 You may wonder why i don't want to give her that pleasure, but she understands why or i just hope that she does?

 Should you try to use a strapon or big strapon on your partner, you know for yourself, but please don't plug anything in your partner without asking him or her first.I know from my own experience that many people including myself, are finding fantasies more appealing than real thing, question is if we bring our fantasies to life, will they fulfill our expectations.Are we ready to risk losing our fantasies, by giving them life?

 Ok, i know that some of you are ready to take the next step and are willing to buy that best strap on, on the market, and are ready to plug it in - almost anything, so i suggest to buy quality adult toy that will last and bring pleasure instead of headache.

 Best choice would be to buy leather strapon with silicone dildo, and without any vibrator attached, otherwise you could end up with adult toy that is hard to maintain and unreliable.Imagine that your fresh new big black strap on brakes during "workout", or it's made of questionable material that is not quiet hygienic enough - spreading around bacterias instead of orgasm...Hm, i wouldn't like to get someones fungus anywhere down there.You?

 So what exactly would you be searching in strapon to be sure you have high quality Huge Strapon sex toy?

 First let me ask you - do you even want to have straps?

 Yes, it can even be strapless, like the Fetish Fantasy Strapless Vibrating Strap On, awesome product that you must see to understand it - link in resource box.

 If you want extra comfortable also without straps, something like plug'n'play, you will consider RodeoH Harness Slip on, like a pair of underwear, attach any dildo or vibrator and let the games begin - again, the link is in resource box.

 Of course, there are numerous models of strap ons on the market, but the main question is what do you want from your sex toy, are you a slow player that wants to try the game, or you are the nasty one, just looking to blast something up.

 If you are the second one, you can buy full blown, big black vibrating leather strapon, with dildo - vibrator, made of extra durable easy to maintain thermoplastic elastomer which is a soft synthetic mixture of plastic and elastomer and also hypoallergenic.Ready to blast and rock for a long time to come.Again - every pun intented.

There can be no denying that when it comes to sex, nothing beats the real thing. However, one cannot also ignore the popularity of several sex toys and the continued introduction of newer models to satisfy a demanding market. This market is growing and as such we should pay attention to how people integrate these items into their sex lives. You should be aware that sex toys can also be used to enhance your sex lives and bring you and your partner to a new level of closeness and intimacy.

 Loosely defined, sex toys are devices meant to pleasure the user sexually, usually used on erogenous parts of the body. There are a lot of sex toys available in specialty shops and through the internet, though most condom retailers are offering a product called the vibrating ring.
 Probably the most common and most popular sex toy is the vibrator. Majority of its users are women, and most admitted to curiosity as the primary reason for initial usage. Though some prefer to use vibrators in private, it can also be used with a partner. For heterosexuals, vibrators can be handy when the guy comes off too fast. It can also be a part of your foreplay, to arouse you and your partner to greater heights. In instances when the vibrator is shared, as in lesbian couples, slip a condom over it before inserting into the vagina and put a new one before handing it to your partner. Make sure that it is also properly cleaned before storing.

 Dildos are also quite popular among the ladies, as they mimic the shape, texture, and size of a real penis, though they require considerably more effort than battery operated or rechargeable vibrators. Again, it would do some good if you slip on a condom over it before using, especially among lesbians who use it to pleasure their partners. And even if you are using it alone to masturbate, a condom would still be advisable unless you are pretty sure your storage place is totally devoid of germs and other irritants.
 There is also one recently introduced product that is fast gaining a loyal following, the vibrating ring. It is a device that is slipped on the penis, and over a condom, and is used to enhance the pleasure of both partners. The vibrating ring has a small battery within the rubber casing. Women who have tried it claim of achieving multiple orgasms through the use of vibrating ring. And the best part of this is that men can take part of the action, too. A vibrating ring is known to extend the erection of the penis. It also has bumps and raised surfaces for heightened pleasure. And because it is stretchable, a vibrating ring can accommodate any size of penis. Vibrating ring users also revel in the fact that this device is portable, easily concealed and thus can be carried almost anywhere.

 Though the use of sex toys to achieve self-gratification is an effective method of birth control, dont think it will turn you away from the pleasure of real, consensual sex. With the availability of contraceptives and protective devices such as condoms and pill, sex is and will always remain to be lifes most enjoyable activity. However, there is still no denying that dildos, vibrators, and the vibrating ring afford much pleasure to their users and will continue to enjoy great popularity.
 

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One of the easiest ways to turn up the heat in the bedroom is to try a little experimentation. You don't have to try anything crazy, but there are many simple things you can do to spice things up.

One of the easiest ways to add a little spice to the bedroom is to add a sex toy or accessory. Experimenting with toys can help any relationship in the romance department. However, choosing the right addition can not only be confusing, but can play on the nerves as well. This is a brand new world, and you may feel very inexperienced and intimidated. Don't let this stop you.

The first time you purchase something in this line may seem scary. There are a few tips that will make this as easy as possible for you.

First, you need to get familiar with what is out there. There are sex toys that come in various shapes and sizes for both men and women. There are also massage oils, costumes and adult games that can add a new layer to your sex life. By being familiar with what is out there, you will feel much more comfortable in an adult store. You may think everyone is staring at you when you get to the cash with an item, but the people there are all there for the same reason.

Sex toys are certainly not as taboo as they may have been years ago. It is becoming more popular as the years pass. There is such a variety of things that you can purchase that it seems like there is something for everyone and every desire. Chances are the couple living next door or even friends and family are using some kind of toy in their sex life. Again, keep that in mind, all the people in there are there for the same reason. Don't let it scare you.

Large cities and towns tend to have several different shops for you to choose from. You can pick based on the stock they carry or location. If going into a store is still intimidating, you can always become anonymous. Online shopping can be your best friend. You have the time to look over each item, and will eliminate the urge to grab the first item and run to the cash. Try to find a website that has a variety of stock and prices and specializes in this area. Like any online shopping, make sure you choose a reputable website.

One other thing to look for when online shopping for sex toys is to choose a company that lists discretion as one of their priorities. You don't want to have a box with bright red lettering announcing the contents. Even worse, how will it show up on your credit card statement. Many companies use names for billing purposes that do not indicate the type of purchase you are making.

Don't be afraid to walk into your local sex store. Ask questions. The people who work in the store have heard everything before and are not going to judge you or think you are a pervert. Instead, they can provide you with a wealth of information, and show you how certain things work. Sex toys are commonplace now. Go to the sex store with your spouse. If you are nervous, try to go at times when they seem to be less crowded, maybe during the day. If you aren't quite ready to make that step, then sit down with your spouse and start looking online. The anticipation of what will be coming in the mail may help to create the right setting for a romantic evening.