One of the easiest ways to turn up the heat in the bedroom is to try a little experimentation. You don't have to try anything crazy, but there are many simple things you can do to spice things up.

One of the easiest ways to add a little spice to the bedroom is to add a sex toy or accessory. Experimenting with toys can help any relationship in the romance department. However, choosing the right addition can not only be confusing, but can play on the nerves as well. This is a brand new world, and you may feel very inexperienced and intimidated. Don't let this stop you.

The first time you purchase something in this line may seem scary. There are a few tips that will make this as easy as possible for you.

First, you need to get familiar with what is out there. There are sex toys that come in various shapes and sizes for both men and women. There are also massage oils, costumes and adult games that can add a new layer to your sex life. By being familiar with what is out there, you will feel much more comfortable in an adult store. You may think everyone is staring at you when you get to the cash with an item, but the people there are all there for the same reason.

Sex toys are certainly not as taboo as they may have been years ago. It is becoming more popular as the years pass. There is such a variety of things that you can purchase that it seems like there is something for everyone and every desire. Chances are the couple living next door or even friends and family are using some kind of toy in their sex life. Again, keep that in mind, all the people in there are there for the same reason. Don't let it scare you.

Large cities and towns tend to have several different shops for you to choose from. You can pick based on the stock they carry or location. If going into a store is still intimidating, you can always become anonymous. Online shopping can be your best friend. You have the time to look over each item, and will eliminate the urge to grab the first item and run to the cash. Try to find a website that has a variety of stock and prices and specializes in this area. Like any online shopping, make sure you choose a reputable website.

One other thing to look for when online shopping for sex toys is to choose a company that lists discretion as one of their priorities. You don't want to have a box with bright red lettering announcing the contents. Even worse, how will it show up on your credit card statement. Many companies use names for billing purposes that do not indicate the type of purchase you are making.

Don't be afraid to walk into your local sex store. Ask questions. The people who work in the store have heard everything before and are not going to judge you or think you are a pervert. Instead, they can provide you with a wealth of information, and show you how certain things work. Sex toys are commonplace now. Go to the sex store with your spouse. If you are nervous, try to go at times when they seem to be less crowded, maybe during the day. If you aren't quite ready to make that step, then sit down with your spouse and start looking online. The anticipation of what will be coming in the mail may help to create the right setting for a romantic evening.